Most girls, upon hearing the news of their best friend’s engagement, would already think about their dress or how they would want to fix their hair. Don’t be one of those girls who completely miss the point of their maid-of-honor or bridesmaid duties.
In every checklist that you’ll find, one of your most important responsibilities is co-hosting the bridal shower. Here are some tips for throwing a unique bridal shower that your friend would never forget.
If you plan the bridal shower at the last minute, there’d be a higher chance that most people you invite would be unavailable. So gather the rest of your woman entourage and plan way ahead of time. Also, you’d have more options since you can have more budget given a longer preparation time.
Make it an unforgettable adventure.
You can make it exclusive for the girls, but most bridal showers nowadays are also becoming co-ed. No matter what you decide on, make it something exciting and adventurous. You don’t have to go very far. You can simply drive to a snowboarding park near Chicago for the weekend. If the bride-to-be loves the outdoors, this would be something that she would appreciate better.
Make it last for more than a few hours.
Bridal showers are usually a one-night event, involving naughty games and drinking sessions. But if you want to make it more memorable, you can plan a whole day event or even a weekend getaway. You know that once your friend marries, her priorities change. It wouldn’t be as easy to ask her to go out-of-town for a few days, so take this opportunity to do just that.
Don’t have uninvited guests.
Don’t commit the mistake of inviting people who are actually not invited to the wedding. You don’t want to cause any tension and awkward scenario because of this. Get a copy of the couple’s guest list from your friend’s partner. Limit the guests not only to the bride-to-be’s friends and family but also the groom’s.
Your maid-of-honor or bridesmaid duties start even before the day of the wedding. Your friend chose you because she trusts that you will be with her all throughout. There is no better way to celebrate this friendship than hosting the most thoughtful bridal shower for her.